A guide on what a paypig is and how to become one
Financial woes are common in our current society. Many people feel the pressures of paying for bills, family and everyday life expenses. Budgeting can be stressful, and individuals often seek out an outlet to feel a sense of financial freedom. One way of feeling this is by gambling, putting all of your money on red or engaging with slot machines can give most people a small sense of lack of control and freedom over their finances.
The demand for relinquishing of finances has taken on a new form and recently a fetish known as findom has become increasingly popular. Findom stands for financial domination and allows participants to exchange money or gifts. Financial submission, a key aspect of findom, involves a finsub willingly relinquishing financial control as part of their submission, finding psychological and sexual satisfaction in the act. But what does financial domination involve and where does the term paypig come in? Read on to find out more.
Financial Domination- what is it?
Financial domination is a fetish where one person is known as the dominant and the other person is known as the submissive. The dominant person in the relationship holds power over the submissive person by taking control of their finances. A financial dominatrix plays a crucial role in these relationships by understanding the unique desires of each sub and mastering strategies to engage them effectively. The control takes on many different forms, they can demand total control of all of the submissive persons money or could request gifts or regular payments.
Findom can also take on the form of games to play to make the relationship more exciting. These games can include spin the wheel, where the sub spins and then pays the dom an amount of money that the spinner lands on. Betting games are also popular and games like Scrabble can be good for those subs who get a thrill out of not knowing how much cash they will end up paying out.
Both parties in the relationship gain excitement from the domme findom scenario, the dom loves the thrill of receiving money or gifts and the sub gains arousal from their lack of control and power.
What is a paypig and what does financial submission involve?
You guys may be familiar with the terms sugar baby and sugar daddy, where a woman has a man who funds her lifestyle, well a paypig is something very similar. In its most simple form, a paypig describes the submissive person in the findom relationship. In most cases it represents a man who gains sexual gratification from being financially exploited. The main difference between a sugar daddy and a paypig is that the paypig does not expect to receive anything in return and enjoys the humiliation that comes from being dominated by a woman.
Being a paypig involves handing over financial control to another person and often receiving insults or tasks to complete. For example, a paypig could be told to film themselves doing 100 push ups, if they fail to complete the task or perform poorly, they will be expected to hand over more cash to the dominant person. They paypig will often feel sexual arousal from this fear of failure and provocation.
Becoming a paypig can take on many different forms. Using a webcam is a popular form of pay pigging, with clients paying £20 or £50 on the demand of the cam performer.
More committed pay pig relationships can involve weekly or monthly direct debit, right up to allowing the dominant partner to control and spend their entire bank account. Long term arrangements in paypig relationships often require significant effort and management skills, such as maintaining spreadsheets for organization.
How do I become a paypig/find a paypig in the findom community?
On Findoms Only it’s very easy to become a paypig or find a paypig. We have thousands of members from across the world who want to be involved in financial domination. If you are someone who is interested in exploring the fetish, have a browse through some of the current listings to see what is currently on offer. Engaging with the right communities is essential for ensuring a safe and positive experience. Once signed up to the site you can contact and talk to some of the members and start taking part in some of the findom games on offer.
If you want to find yourself a paypig, set up a profile and start listing your services. Make sure to add images and information to your profile so that interested people can get to know you a bit better. Use specific online platforms to connect with the right person who fits your desires and preferences. Advertise some spin the wheel games or other services that you would be willing to offer and wait for people to get in touch. You can actually make quite a lot of money from the findom relationship but make sure that you are willing to engage with the other members on the site, chat in the forums and post on the newsfeed and it will get you a lot more noticed.
Finding a Dominant Partner in the Findom Community
Finding a dominant partner in the findom community can be a daunting task, especially for those new to the scene. However, with the rise of online platforms and social media, it’s become easier to connect with like-minded individuals. Here are some tips for finding a dominant partner in the findom community:
Join Online Communities: Platforms like Findoms Only, Twitter and Reddit have vibrant findom communities where you can connect with others who share your interests. These spaces offer a safe environment to discuss your desires and find potential partners.
Attend BDSM Events: Participating in BDSM events and workshops can be a fantastic way to meet people in person and learn more about the findom lifestyle. These events often provide opportunities to network and build connections.
Use Findom Dating Sites: Consider joining a findom-specific dating site or app like ours which are designed to help you find partners who are interested in financial domination, making it easier to find someone compatible.
Communicate Openly: When interacting with potential partners, be honest about your desires and boundaries. Open communication is key to building trust and ensuring compatibility in a findom relationship.
By following these tips, you can increase your chances of success of finding the right dominant partner who shares your interests and desires.
Safety and Consent in Findom Relationships
Safety and consent are essential components of any findom relationship. Here are some tips for ensuring that your relationship is safe and consensual:
Open Communication: Always communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your desires and boundaries. Ensure that both parties are comfortable with the level of financial control being exchanged.
Establish Boundaries: Set clear boundaries and safe words to facilitate effective communication. This helps in maintaining a healthy dynamic and ensures that both parties feel secure.
Financial Awareness: Be aware of your partner’s financial situation to avoid putting them in a difficult position. Responsible financial control is crucial in a findom relationship.
Third-Party Mediation: Consider involving a third-party mediator or mentor to help facilitate communication and ensure the relationship remains healthy and consensual.
Prioritize Aftercare: Aftercare is vital in any BDSM relationship, including findom. Make sure both parties are taking care of each other’s emotional and financial well-being.
By prioritizing communication, trust, and respect, you can ensure that your findom relationship is safe, consensual, and ultimately fulfilling for both parties involved. Don’t hesitate to seek help if needed to maintain a healthy dynamic.
Summary
A findom relationship can be a thrilling and exciting experience for all those involved. It relies on mutual consent and communication so that both parties know exactly what to expect. We would recommend doing some research into what kind of relationships and findom games are available before you participate. Have a look through some of our current dominants and be free to communicate with some of our members to ask any questions or get advice.
Here on Findoms Only, we offer a safe space for all of our members to discuss fetishes and desires. We have a verification process that enables us to ensure a secure experience for everyone and we have a fantastic team of staff who can offer support, advice and guidance from behind the scenes. Simply create a thoughtful and authentic presence as a findomme to resonate with potential subs.
If you are interested in becoming or finding a paypig, why not get signed up today and get started on your findom journey. We look forward to welcoming you to the community!
